Wisdom Doesn’t Know What to Do
Wisdom means we always know what to do, right?
I don’t think so. In fact, wisdom knows that we often face circumstances and situations when we have no idea what to do.
That’s why wisdom prays.
In 2 Chronicles 20, the men, women, and children of Judah stood watching their King Jehoshaphat. Their land was being invaded. They looked to their leader to learn his well-thought-out plan of action. Yet, Jehoshaphat had no idea what to do to help his people. He had no answers.
In having no answers, he had THE answer.
He turned to God. He reminded God of his promises as he prayed:
Our God, will you not judge them? For we have no power to face this vast army that is attacking us. We do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you.”
(2 Chronicles 20:12)
Wisdom doesn’t have to know what to do. Wisdom must know where to turn. Jehoshaphat displays great wisdom while not knowing what to do.
Wyndham has consistently set an example for me, and for our family by NOT always knowing what to do—yet always knowing who to turn to. You see, prayer is not merely something we do to check off our spiritual activities for the day. Prayer is dependence on God. Prayer is desperation. Prayer is relationship. Prayer is essential. Prayer is trusting even when we have no idea what to do next. Wyndham likes to begin and end the days with prayer. He would begin vacation times with prayer, begin car rides with prayer–even fishing trips with prayer. When he would visit with someone he would ask to pray with them, and when someone visits us he wants to pray with them.
We began praying with our kids when they were newborns, and we still pray with them. We love to pray with our grandchildren, because we, like their parents, long for them to know the Presence of God.
One of Wyndham’s favorite scriptures is in Exodus 33. Moses is faced with the “I don’t know what to do or where to go” dilemma. So—he prays.
Moses said to the LORD, “You have been telling me, ‘Lead these people,’ but you have not let me know whom you will send with me. You have said, ‘I know you by name and you have found favor with me.’
If you are pleased with me, teach me your ways so I may know you and continue to find favor with you. Remember that this nation is your people.”
The LORD replied, “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.”
Then Moses said to him, “If your Presence does not go with us, do not send us up from here. (Exodus 33:12-15)
Wisdom knows that when God’s Presence is with us… we will be okay.
If God’s Presence is not with us, we can have all kinds of fabulous or not so fabulous ideas and plans…but we had best not move forward.
God with us, God’s presence, God’s wisdom—is everything.
I took this picture a few nights ago because it’s a common scene. Whenever Sam comes (a couple times a week) to help with some of the routines like showers and getting Wyndham into bed this scene is familair– Sam praying with his dad last thing at night. (I have also learned that he and our daughters pray by phone together very early in the morning once a week.) No one asked them to do this. They have learned wisdom, because they don’t know what to do.
We can’t fix our situation. We don’t know what to do. But our eyes our on him.
God’s Presence is what really matters.
Jeanie, thank you for sharing this with us. Prayer is so powerful and bonding as a family and as individuals with one another. Thank you for also sharing this picture. It’s a treasure to see Sam with his Dad and to show the reality of Wyndham’s situation. It’s very vulnerable and moving. Please give Wyndham my love. You all are in our daily prayers. ❤️
Beautiful. We pray often as a couple and as a family, but this reminds me that we don’t invite our children often enough to pray. I want to change that.
Love this and the picture with Sam.
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Wyndham your example of loving to pray always and depending on your Heavenly Father at all times is very inspiring .Thank you for sharing this story !Katherine