Ever been stuck in a decision? One where perhaps you’re discerning a better and best more than a right or wrong? Or, perhaps you are making a wise vs. stupid decision, but you aren’t sure which side of wise or stupid you are on.:-) Some decisions clearly do carry a right and wrong choice, as defined by God. And others, if not carefully pursued, can begin innocently and yet end up badly. Also, there there are those that can end up being better or best–decisions we don’t want to miss making.
A question I’ve been mulling around in my head and heart over the past week or two is not (in the best of my Bible reading, praying, discernment and advice seeking over the last couple of weeks) one that has a right or wrong attached to it or is of utmost importance. It’s really only about writing, and how much extra time (beyond my already very busy job) to devote to this hobby I quite enjoy. Beyond books, (which is my main focus in this hobby) I am continually learning that there’s so much more I “could and should” learn to do with blogs, social media, etc. to enhance the ability to get the message of these books out there. But alas, there are only so many hours in a day. I need to decide just how much extra time to spend on these things.
I also have a few Christian friends who are currently making some decisions of a different nature. As a result, I put together a few questions I’m asking myself concerning spiritual decision making. Let me know any others you consider, as well as how these considerations may have helped you make decisions.
One request. Please stop and read the scriptures, for they are the real meat in this little list. And also remember that our decision making influences others’ lives whom our lives touch..
- Will the decision(s) I make (big and small) reflect a true “seeking the kingdom first” heart and attitude—where it is evident to those around me that the kingdom of God and his righteousness are more important to me than anything else? (Matthew 6:19-34)
- Will my decisions be made only after Bible study, prayer, perhaps fasting, and seeking advice? (James 1:2-8; 2 Timothy 2:15; Romans 15:14; Colossians 3:16-17)
- Will my decisions help me help more people find a true relationship with God? (1 Cor. 9:19-27, John 4:34-35)
- Will my decisions reflect the Godly practice of seeking advice and seeking the good of the whole? (Romans 12:1-5; Proverbs 15:22)
- Will my decisions reflect a “servant heart” and will they help me exercise humility in my life? Currently, does this heart and attitude show itself in tangible ways in my life—ways that help guard me and my family from the temptations of entitlement or self-serving? (Philippians 2:1-11)
- If my decisions carry a price tag, will I begin with a “tithing spirit”— a decision to give to God a generous portion FIRST? Does the current way I handle my finances reflect a “first fruits” heart toward God and inspire my family to think first of giving back to God? (Mark 12:29-44)
- Will I let things I have already done for God, cause me to think it’s now “my time”? ,,, I deserve this or that? (Luke 17:7-10)
- Will my decisions help me be of greater service to the church? Ephesians 5:15-16; John 4:34-35; Luke 8:14-15)
- Will my decisions help me be more focused on God’s purposes, or will they add complication and distraction to my already busy life? ( Luke 10:38-42; Luke 8:14-15)
- Will my decisions be affected by what others will think of me more than what I can know is best as defined by God and his word—as far as I can discern? (Mark 12:14)
Okay. This is my quiet time tomorrow.
Thanks, Jennie. I hope it was helpful. And thanks for letting me know the scripture typo. 🙂
The are excellent questions to ask myself. Thank you!
Thanks for stopping by. Your encouragement means a lot. 🙂
SUCH a great list, Jeanie! Thank you! Will bookmark this and use it time and again. (And PS The hubby’s back, so it’s time for that phone date. 😉 )
Was great to talk to you Elizabeth. Thanks so much.
I wish I saw this last week, as I made some choices over the week end that may ultimately harm someone I care about!
Thanks for the reply. Well, I have often made mistakes and there is nothing like a heart-felt apology if needed. I hope it all works out for you and the one you care about. I’m grateful for prayer, direction, and lots of grace…and thankful to still be a work in progress.